An Open Letter To The Orlando Shooter

You’re a fucking asshole. With that out of the way I can tell you what’s really going on for me. I am raging mad at you and my heart is literally melting in my chest because of what you did. It’s not the shooting which is so horrible but it’s the intention from which you carried it out.

I want to reverse this situation, to go back in time and smack your stupid face until it bleeds but I cannot do that. What’s most disturbing is that we’re going to see much more of this so while I hate your guts I have to believe that you represent the beginning of the end of the war to the queer communities fight for acceptance. You are nothing more than a historical pawn and while your deeds are unforgivable you give me strength and serve as a reminder for why being queer matters.

As gays fight for the rights to be just like everyone else, people in other parts of the world are being murdered. I do not want to be like everyone else, that’s not a good or bad thing it’s just that being queer provides me with a perspective worth sharing. And then there’s you, a shallow representation of homophobia and I say ’shallow’ because you put your opinion out there by force. You literally took away my brothers and sisters as a way of changing what you didn’t like. It’s tragic how your life must have spilled into such a dark and narrow world or maybe you were always like that and this is just the fruit of your life’s work. In any event I hate your fucking guts.
Historically, as one group gains power and mainstream acceptance the remaining opposition is forced to react, much like a rat trapped in a corner. I am so lucky to live in Toronto because it gives a platform where I can live openly and free from consequence and therefore I see it as my duty to be as visible as possible. The war for acceptance is far from over and as a community our strength is in our numbers. I’m using this horrific tragedy to remind myself that while the battle for acceptance may feel like it’s already been won, it’s far from over.

This is Pride month in Toronto and the most honouring thing we can do for the people of Orlando is live loud, proud and be unapologetically queer.

Image: REUTERS

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Proud To Vote: LGBTQ ISSUES IN THE ELECTION

Proud To Vote HELKIO

GRAPHIC DESIGN: Raymond Helkio

Join us for a discussion & debate with representatives of all four major parties on key issues for LGBTQ communities in Canada. The event features representatives from all four major Canadian political parties running candidates in Ontario with the discussion moderated by Brenda Cossman, from the Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies. Unlike riding-focused debates, this town hall will focus on a range of issues of interest to LGBTQ communities in Canada, including domestic and foreign policy issues.

THURSDAY SEPTEMBER 24, 2015
Buddies In Bad Times Theatre
Doors: 5:00pm
Debate begins: 6:00pm
Post-debate Social: 8:00pm

UPCOMING: LGBTQ Issues Debate in Ottawa on Friday, September 25th being held at the National Centre for the Arts. Follow both our events on Twitter at #LGBTQVotes or Facebook.


Event Partners include: the 519, the Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies at the University of Toronto, Buddies in Bad Times Theatre, the Canadian HIV/AIDS Legal Network, the Dignity Initiative, #EndHateLaws, Pride Toronto, Sherbourne Health Centre, Trans Lobby Group, and XTRA Pink Triangle Press.

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